Don't try to win a friend by presenting gifts. You should instead contribute your sincere love and learn how to win others' heart through appropriate ways. - Socrates
At the age of fifteen, I set my heart on learning;
at thirty, I was already well established;
at forty, I began to be immune from confusion;
at fifty, I could understand Heaven's will;
at sixty, I felt no surprise at any opinion;
and in my seventies, I have been able to do whatever I intend to without transgressing the rules. - Confucius